, then most likely there will be no faithful disinterested friends, if you choose family and care for children, then wait and so on.
In order to make a decision faster, the one that seems right, a person must know himself well, understand his aspirations and distinguish his goals from the goals of those around him.
The most difficult choice is to overcome the fear of loss. After all, when a person chooses one option, he loses all the others. This loss is not just some kind of opportunity or benefit, it is the loss of the real development of one of the possible ways of life and all the benefits associated with this option. When people analyze their doubts, they often represent a brief development of the most attractive areas and the interesting benefits associated with it. And choosing some path, they lose all other benefits. It is really difficult to accept when you yourself refuse to get attractive benefits by your strong-willed decision.
Also, the fear of being wrong and suffering for a long time because of making the wrong decision is very painful. Therefore, many people hang out in a situation of indecision and constant doubt. Even making a choice, they then suffer, unable to survive the frustration of the thought: “And if in exchange for this person, would there be one that I refused? It would definitely be better if I got another job that was offered to me. ”Etc. And they dream that in some distant future they will be able to change their present circumstances and find happiness. The problem is that these dreams only give an extra reason for throwing and worsen an already unhappy life.
In fact, in order not to suffer from the decision made, you need to take responsibility for any outcome. It is necessary to consciously abandon other options in favor of one and direct all attention to the creation of good conditions for its implementation. It will help in this awareness of all the benefits that should be very attractive and useful. This strategy gives confidence in their abilities. A person sees that he has his own personal territory in which he can make his own decisions and take responsibility for them to no one reporting. It helps to form a healthy self-esteem and brings pleasure from life.
Life consists of a billion choices and some decisions at the expense of others. People are always trying to choose the best, eliminating the worst, in their opinion, options. And so there are circumstances that it is impossible to get everything desired in one object: if a career, then there is often a lack of privacy, if there is a lot of money